Once upon a time our ancestors knew what they had to eat to give themselves enough fuel to work, and the medicine to keep healthy. We have since lost that knowledge. We have also lost the knowledge to grow and cook from scratch and many people now adays rely on meals from the supermarket. or take aways. When did we stop thinking about food as fuel and nutrition and start thinking of it as a treat, a pass time or something to be indulged in? How did we lose all those skills over a short period of time? I blame the food industry, and us for believing the hype and opting for convenience.
For years I thought that I was eating a healthy diet, but lots of times it was full of hidden ingredients that could harm me I bought supplements as a safe guard, but again they were often full of hidden nasties. No one tells us that not all supplements are equal and eating a healthy, balanced diet is so important. Lots of people cheat and eat and drink rubbish and then take a few supplements thinking that they will be ok as they are getting the nutrients that they need. Good quality supplements are really useful like magnesium as you get older, and B12 if you are a vegan, but I don’t believe that we should just rely on them for our health. Everything that we put into our mouth is important and impacts on our body.
The trouble is, that a lot of foods that we find on the shelves in the supermarket are addictive and our body is not designed to deal with most of them. Unbeknown to many things like sawdust are added to bulk food out. I was really addicted to chocolate but have found since I started taking some magnesium, that my addiction has reduced. Trying to be healthy is so hard and confusing now adays. The things that I learned in school that were nutritious, I was later told were bad for me, even though they had been eaten for hundreds, if not thousands of years. I believed that recent technology meant that we now knew better. I was wrong. It was mainly a marketing ploy.
Now adays, I try to stick to a diet of mainly things that my grandparents ate as they all lived into their nineties. However, food is not the same and has been tampered with, unfortunately. The flour has been hybridised, the vegetables are full of chemicals and preservatives, and the meat is full of hormones. Even ‘organic’ does not mean the same as it used to. It feels nearly impossible to make sensible, healthy choices, sometimes.
Pills are pushed on us and illnesses are ‘cured’ by taking a pill with a long list of side effects. Sometimes these drugs are even given for preventative measures before we are even ill. This can make us complacent about our health as it is a quick fix. Meanwhile, we are surrounded by weeds, bushes and plants that Mother Nature gave us to cure or improve our health. Unfortunately we don’t value or know how to use them. We didn’t listen to our ancestors and thought that we knew better in this modern age. This last few years I have been trying to incorporate herbs and items I have foraged, and regain some of that knowledge.
How are we supposed to know what is really safe, either food or medication wise? We get given one medication to relieve one symptom, that gives us another symptom and so an added medication is given to deal with that symptom. Before we know it we are on at least half a dozen medications, and have no real idea about how they are impacting on our health. Can we really trust the doctors when they are paid to prescribe by drug companies. I want to, but I find it hard as I know that they get very little training in nutrition and have been trained to look after us in this way.
I am trying to improve my general health at the moment. I am over weight, pre diabetic, and have bad knees. I let myself go in my 40s when life was very hard and stressful. Although I weigh a lot less than then, and am over all healthier (I walked with a stick then), it is so hard to get out of bad habits. It is also not easy to more or less unlearn everything that I have been taught over the last 40 years. I was told fats were bad for me and to use seed oils instead. These low fat diets have now been linked to increases in insulin resistance and heart disease. I was advised not to drink full milk or full fat yoghurt for the same reasons, even by doctors, which seems incredible when low fat products often contain hidden sugars and higher amounts of salt. Too many eggs were supposed to be bad for me. It was impressed on me that I just needed to count calories or ‘points’ to lose weight whilst not being advised about nutrition. All that mattered was what the scales registered. Until I started growing my own food, and did a professional nutrition course, I didn’t always choose the nutrient rich foods that I needed for the general health of my bones or organs. Magazines and the media kept giving me mixed advice, and when I was younger I thought that I was infallible.
A myth that I have recently started breaking is that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. However recent studies have shown that skipping breakfast and doing some intermittent fasting not only usually results in less calories being consumed. but that it can improve blood sugar levels and reduce inflammation. Doctors also told me to use sweeteners instead of sugar when these are shown to be connected to changes in gut bacteria and increased diabetes. I was also warned about other ‘old fashioned’ staples like potatoes, despite them being full of vitamin C, fibre, and potassium. I now believe that having a balanced diet and moderation are more important, and the way that things are cooked. I am more careful what I add to things like potatoes, as well and looking at what else I have eaten that day.
I have often been told that because I am ‘fat’ I am not healthy. Meanwhile, thin friends of my age are often sick and take a bag full of medication, whilst I rely on none. Many are on benefits and have had to retire early due to poor health. The government is even talking about giving the overweight unemployed fat loss injections instead of looking at the reasons why they maybe overweight, which is often due to other reasons rather than being lazy or gluttonous. I know that my weight increased last year. and my pre diabetes started, due to comfort eating as my brother was dying. Unlike me, my ‘skinny’ friends don’t have regular exercise, or particularly eat nutritious meals as I do, but I am still the one that gets the judgemental looks or lectures of disinformation. I feel like the world has gone mad and that we need to get back to the basics that I learned from Mrs Roberts in high school. Pictures of the 1960s and the 1970s did not show lots of overweight people, in fact there were hardly any. On a trip to the swimming pool the other day I felt normal as most of the women were overweight or obese. That is so sad as the majority of them were a lot younger than me.
We see all of these foods being sold as healthy in the supermarket like juices and smoothies but most of them are laden with sugar. In fact the best way to eat fruit is raw and whole as we need the fibre. Many ‘health products’ like probiotics are useless as they do not work if not constantly stored at the correct temperature, and studies show that they can actually be damaging as they interfere with the natural bacteria in the gut. Another myth is that high cholesterol food is bad for us, like eggs and full fat milk. Yes, I agree that these should not be over indulged in, but our brains actually need cholesterol to work well, and they make one feel full, and provide essential nutrients. It seems a bit of a coincidence to me that dementia has risen significantly since we have all been encouraged to eat a low fat and low cholesterol diet (and are prescribed statins due to our age rather than our cholesterol),.
I think that I have often taken my health for granted. I have a bad habit of eating less healthily over the winter. I have no garden growing and I indulge in comfort eating (I hate winter). However this year I am writing this to keep myself accountable as I really want to try to see my food as nutrition and medicine, rather than calories and a treat (except on special occasions). Since March I have lost a stone, but that is not as important as the fact that I have lowered the amount of UPF that I eat, and increased my nutrition. My goal is to build on that. I want to lower even further the amount of ultra processed food that I eat, even though I can often get this food readily from the community fridge, or cheaply in the supermarket. I intend to read every label, read all the medical studies, learn to forage more items that will act like medicine, and try to hydrate more. I have already reduced the portions and the number of meals that I eat, but realise that I have a long way to go. Staying healthy whilst losing weight is not going to be easy, but if I want to stay away from drugs, and live an active life as I reach my sunset years, it is something that I need to do and take seriously. Hopefully it is not too late. Are you taking steps to improve your health?
Yes Toni I’m taking action with my health and fitness. My blood pressure was sky high a couple of weeks ago when I went to get my flu jab they took my blood pressure in the chemist and I was sent straight down to my GP’s yep it scared me and gave me a kick up my bum what I needed and yep I thought I was ultra healthy but obviously not. I’ve managed to reduce it quite a bit but still needs more work and I’m trying very hard to reduce my weight and I’m not eating till lunch time my first meal, I feel fine doing this I think it’s suiting me a lot better. Oh I’m determined to try and look after myself I’m looking forward to when I will be able to get my state pension from which they have stole 6years. I’ve got to keep fit and healthy for many years, I’ve still got a bucket list as long as my arm and I need to be healthy.
Aww I am glad that the kick up the bum worked. Sometimes we need to be scared into changing a habit. Well done. Yes I have had my pension delayed as well and need to make sure that I am well enough to officially enjoy being a pension. Good luck on your journey and thanks for sharing
Great post Toni, I avoid all low fat/diet products as they are full of sugar, I also try and stay from anything that has more than 5 ingredients in them and I always stay away from foods that have ingredients that I cannot pronounce or spell, no foods should have chemicals in them and a lot of foods have chemicals in them to give them a longer shelf life. I strongly believe food nutrition and “proper” cooking should be taught in schools
I agree about the schools. It sounds like you are doing well in avoiding the nasties. Thanks for sharing
A great article. Well done Toni. It is so important that this message gets out there.
I am on the same journey having read the book Ultra Processed People. A difficult and scary read. Not at all frugal, but I was so determined to take control, that I am currently doing the Zoe Programme. It’s excellent, but most of the crucial information is out there and and available without the need to invest in expensive programmes.
Like you , I have serious doubts about much of the current advice re low fat, eggs etc.
My daughter did that programme for 3 months and it helped her, but like you say, the information is available elsewhere as well. Sometime being scared is the only way to make changes. Thanks for sharing
Hi Toni 100% spot on I agree with everything you say except not having my bowl of porridge first thing in the morning I must eat at this time as I don’t have time to sit down at my work and eat properly. I do have a mug of homemade soup I make at school and sip it over a couple of hours. I’ve definitely taken lots of positive steps especially cutting out nearly all UPFs. My husband can’t give up his tomato sauce, brown sauce on his meals, I wish he would as it’s full of nasties and I haven’t the time to make those for him. I already make pitta breads and meals for his work lunches. He doesn’t seem to be loosing weight like I do , perhaps it’s because he isn’t cutting out the UPF like me or doing the exercise like I do, as I’m out with a walking club every weekend. Anyways I had my cholesterol test yesterday so I’m hoping the results will be good, as I stopped taking my statins a couple of years ago because of side affects and feel so much better not taking any medications or supplements. As like you there are nasties in those supplements! Best to stick to foods from scratch. One thing I really must aim for is making sourdough bread. They have courses here in the borders but it’s getting on one when I’m not working! I really don’t like some of the foods I serve up to the school children I just wouldn’t eat some of it. I really enjoy making the foods from scratch and I do hope the governments look at school menus more closely going forward as it’s really worrying I feel. I was watching a 1960s isle of wight band the other night and I couldn’t believe how slim everyone was in the ordinance it was a big eye opener. The governments and corporations should be held accountable for the state of the food industry. Maybe I’ve said to much but that’s just my thoughts on it all. Great article Toni love it. X
We are all different and I am happy that you have found something that works for you. I know that you have done so much in improving your health and losing weight. Yes school meals are not always good, though my daughter’s school have now employed a company to help them reduce UPF and make the meals more nutritional, which is a step forward. You haven’t said to much. I feel that more people have to speak out or else nothing will change and the health of the nation will just deteriorate. That is one of the reasons that I write these kinds of blogs. Yes when I look back on how skinny I was as a teenager I almost look underfed compared to teenagers nowadays. Thanks for your great response.
Thank you Toni, I always find your healthy eating blogs inspiring. I have grown a lot of my own food for many years and also do intermittent fasting in an effort to stave off weight gain and diabetes. I now only eat two meals a day, the first being in the late morning and always including oats and fruit. It was Michael Mosley’s 5:2 diet that got me into this. Glad you’re break with the LLs went well x
Aww thanks. I am glad that you have found something that works for you x
Brilliant informative post Toni I didn’t realise the low fat items were full of sugar, lesson learnt now thank you
No worries, yes and sweeteners and salt to give them taste. Thanks for commenting
I love this post. You are so right. Food is a necessary fuel that keeps our bodies running smoothly. And ,yes, we all will have the occasional treat. The closer to nature the food is, surely that has to be the better for us? And also you are bang on that laziness and gluttony are not the main reasons for people being overweight- the mental side of overeating is so often underrated. I follow a programme called Slimpod which uses the subconscious to help people understand why they eat and how to be aware and ,therefore , learn how to change their habits. And how to be kind to themselves. We have this society where we are still judged on our size. And this only escalates the mental critic who has a field day berating us. And then the various “diet” groups catch us with their empty promises. Can we win? I believe so, by doing what you are advocating here. And having the courage to step away from what the world says works and finding our own paths back to eating with the seasons and as natural as possible. Keep talking, Toni. You are so right.
Thank you. A lovely written, and educational response. Life coaching, goal setting, and journaling help me change habits, which are probably similar to Slimpod, I agree. I think that we just have to have the courage to do our own thing which we think is right for us rather than listening to ‘experts’ who change their mind every few years.
A very informative post – thank you Toni! Intermittent fasting works for me too.
Brilliant. Thanks for your kind feedback
Thank you Toni, I loved reading this! I too am trying to reduce my UPF, I set myself a target to reduce it by at least 75% but, I’m now trying to reduce it further to 90% and only indulge if I’m out with friends or family. I am very fortunate to be able to buy bread with no nasties in it from the local bakery, as well as make my own. I make my own sweet snacks in the form of flapjack made with oats and seeds.
I gained 2stone since 2020 and alot of that has been due to financial constraints, but my health has definitely suffered and now I’m regaining control while I can!
Thankfully my favourite chocolate is dark and so it is possible to find non UPF versions that are nice 😍
Well done. Life hasn’t been the same since 2020 and so it is understandable that you put weight on. I did too. Good idea to make your own healthy snacks. I am probably on 80% UPF most weeks but I too want to reduce it further like you. Good luck and thanks for sharing.
A very interesting read, Toni. I have taken various steps to improve my health over the years, including periods of intermittent fasting. I am still a little overweight but it is gradually going down as I become happier within myself. I am an emotional eater – when I am upset I binge on treats! Thank you so much for writing this.
I was a binge when stressed or emotional as well but the fasting is helping me reduce that. Well done with the weight loss. Thanks for sharing
Great post Toni! Well said. I’m feel so lucky I found fasting and have read a lot and listened to many podcasts on the subject.
After taking part in an intermittent fasting study late last year and feeling so well and full of energy while doing it I decided to carry on. I don’t eat or drink anything other than water after 8pm and don’t eat or drink before 12pm in the morning. I eat more or less what I like for lunch and dinner and have noticed I don’t want ultra processed, sugar loaded food.
I walk at least 2 miles a day during the week before work and do 7 hours of yoga classes during the week and I’m loving the way I feel in myself. I’ve lost over 3 stone and feel healthier and fitter than I have for decades. I’m 65, and this time last year I felt like retiring, I can’t imagine that now!
You definitely are what, and when, you eat!
Wow well done with the weight loss. My window of eating is 10.30am to 5.30pm and sometimes it is later when I first eat. I am so glad that your health has improved. thanks for sharing.
Brilliant post Toni. I agree with every word you’ve written. They do say that you are what you eat and we need to remember this when we feel poorly because we’ve been eating unnatural food stuff. Also, I definitely agree that doctors are not savvy when it comes to nutrition. I’m a vegetarian and when I went for my blood test, I was told to eat more fish! When I said that I was a vegetarian, the doctor wouldn’t have it that vegetarians do not eat meat or fish! She said that she knew many vegetarians that eat fish. It was like banging my head against a brick wall to try and explain to her, so I gave up. I’m also trying your example of eating no upfront. It’s hard but I’m going to get there.
Thank you ❤️
Aww well done. Gosh, fancy a doctor not knowing that a vegetarian can not eat fish! All this stuff needs to be taught in schools again. Thanks for sharing
Thank you, Toni. This post is so informative. I will be re-reading it often as I make my changes.
Brilliant. Thanks for the kind feedback
A very good post! I am in my 3rd week of eating healthy. Not dieting but just watching portions and cutting out snacks, especially sugary ones. My grandmother lived to 102. She died a few days before her 103rd birthday. She had never been in hospital until she broke her hip and was very healthy. She got pneumonia in hospital and died.She cooked on a wood cookstove and carried her water from a spring behind her home. She had big garden and cooked everything from scratch. She taught me how to garden and cook. I spent a lot of summers with her and learned so much. I’m using all she taught me now. I want to be as healthy as she was.
Brilliant. Those must be lovely memories, and she left you a great legacy. Thanks for sharing
Really interesting post Toni.
Thanks
I take what I eat very seriously but I am overweight. I think it’s a combination of side effects from medication and not being able to exercise. At the moment I am awaiting injections into my knees as well as the operation I was due to have in September. I have been decreasing my portions and trying to not eat processed food where I can.
We grow more fruit and vegetables now than we did years ago and freeze a lot to use throughout winter.
Thankfully my husband can cook and we always decide what we are having and he has become quite inventive since seeing that he can adjust recipes and he is good at suggesting healthy foods.
I would never have those fat injections or the slimming pills Dr’s can issue. I can see future health problems in those people.
I was pestered and pestered to take statins as I was high risk, except my cholesterol readings were all good. I had to stop because they interfered with my liver. What I found silly when my GP was assessing me was that had I lived in Scotland I would have scored higher because people there are considered to have not such a good diet. I told the Dr that surely due to all the hills they should be fitter but she didn’t seem to understand.
I recently joined a Facebook group to look at diets of the 60’s and 70’s. I will leave it after having a few more looks but I was horrified with what I saw, all the instant desserts, packet soups, the shaped frozen foods aimed at children and I know I bought some of them for my children. I thought they were eating healthily because we did eat fresh fruit and vegetables, although I suppose they would have had chemicals on and in them.
My older relatives lived to a healthy age and ate far bigger portions than I do.
We don’t buy low fat or artificial sweeteners. There has to be some connections between all the children with ADHD and all the other conditions because when I was at school there was only one girl in the school with an asthma inhaler. When my children were at school it seemed half their classes had inhalers and all the allergies so other parents have to agree not to send certain foods in their children’s packed lunches. It is very worrying.
I think people moved more in years gone by. I remember my grandma using the mangle and dolly tub, scrubbing the steps and sweeping the floors. We have more time saving aids in the house now. People walked more as families didn’t have 2 cars and the bus services were better and so that is probably why people could eat more. A lot of work was manual as well. I remember a lot of those processed meals and desserts coming in during the 70s. My mum never cooked from scratch and things were often out of a packet. I agree with you about the ADHD and I think it is the cause of things like Fibromyalgia which is diagnosed in lots of adults. Thanks for sharing
I think we’re on a similar journey. I’m in the enviable position of being able to spend a bit more on food (I don’t have a garden) and choose less (e.g.meat) but good, and some not too pricey organic fruit, veg, pulses etc., along with cheaper and occasionally foraged stuff. The best trick has been to totally ignore aisles of “food-like” substances and care enough about myself (and DD and anyone else I might be feeding) to be mindful of what goes in my mouth.
My cooking is much improved, so much so that eating out can be a big disappointment now. The trouble is that I LOVE good food and eat too much of it. I’ll never lose weight until I can rein in my portion sizes! Oh and trying intermittent fasting by delaying my first meal would help if I didn’t wreck all those good intentions by snacking late. This is a tough habit to break :(
I always snacked at night as Mr S goes to bed early and he guards the biscuit tin. However, I have found that now I am not allowed to eat after 5.30pm, I have stopped that habit. My other meals are close together and so I am not hungry enough to snack at other times, usually. We love food too but smaller plates has helped with the portion sizes.
Totally agree with what you say. I too am trying to ‘unprocess myself’ though this is proving harder than i thought. Thank you for a thoughtful and well written article.
It is so hard if you rely on supermarkets, even when you cook mainly from scratch. Simple things like Quinoa have hidden ingredients. Good luck. I have seen articles that say M & S are trying to cut down on adding ultra processed ingredients, but things are often more expensive.
Really interesting article, I too have cut down on number of meals I eat although portion sizes are a work in progress!!
Yes it has taken me 18 months to really reduce our meal portions. Using small bowls and plates helped, and making sure that I had enough left overs for another meal.
Great article. I feel we are on the same journey and waking up to all the hype and manipulation dished up by the food industry and governments.
True. We just need more people to start waking up now and realising the impact on our health and life expectancy.
We have lived and worked in South Africa for the past forty years, now we are retired we live between Scotland and SA. We missed all the UK government advice on diet and just carried on as normal. We have eggs muesli fruit yogurt and milk for breakfast, all full fat, soup or salad for lunch curry pasta etc for dinner, all home made. I have food intolerances to some fruit additives and preservatives so do not buy ready meals and I am careful eating out. A mistake will not kill me but the effects are not pleasant. At the moment we are travelling for three months so buying bread and yogurt but the rest is cooked from scratch, also we do not snack just an occasional biscuit. As we get older we have to eat less or the weight piles on. I wish you well with your food journey.
Thank you. Yes a lot of other countries have a lot healthier food easily available than us and the USA. Have a lovely time travelling and thanks for sharing
Thanks for Sharing Toni :)
No worries. Thanks for reading
Brilliant post Toni and very timely for me. I’ve been lucky to be fit and healthy all my life but this year (I’m now 74) after a few health issues (too long a story for here) over the year I was diagnosed as pre-diabetic, together with hypertension and high cholesterol with statins prescribed. I managed to persuade the doctor to let me try and adjust my diet first and I’m happy to say that over 3 months I reduced all my levels down to normal. I’ve also lost weight, possibly too much, and feel much better.
It was really done by doing all the things you outline in this blog and it wasn’t difficult. My diagnoses were a huge shock as I wasnt overweight and thought my diet was very healthy but hadn’t really noticed that it had become poorer over the years and i was doing less exercise as I got older. I started off by eating the same but immediately cutting down the obvious baddies by half e.g. half a slice of toast and marmalade, cutting off half the skin on a chicken leg, half a piece of cake or piece of chocolate etc. I referred to Michael Moseley’s advice on coping with diabetes and also literature from the BHF to change my core diet (much like you’ve outlined here) and now enjoy my food as much as I ever have.
I also eat as much organic food as possible but I’m lucky to be able to afford that and cut spending on other things to do it. I do it to save the planet as much as to improve my health but I know this isn’t the place to go deeper into that.
So thank you Toni for all this info that will help me continue my journey 🙏 xxx
Well done for getting all of your stats down. Thanks for sharing what has helped you
Very well said and I agree with everything you’ve written here. I find it so frustrating that it is cheaper to buy processed food than individual fresh ingredients. I’ve also significantly reduced UPF that I eat. Now I need to try and convince my children that home baked treats are better than processed and prepackaged ones. Do you have any advice on that?
Not really. My children ate healthy snack and meals because I couldn’t afford anything else. It is so frustrating. Sorry I can’t help more.
A sensible and informative post Toni
I need to lose some weight , but I’m trying a lower carb approach and small portions. I think as a society we’ve been encouraged to snack which means we never feel real hunger . I’m skipping breakfast most days and feel better for it . I used to be a health visitor and one thing that struck me was that many mums didn’t know how to cook from scratch. Domestic Science as it was called was scrapped from school curriculum’s . To me it was an essential subject , that, and financial budgeting should have carried on . I cook from scratch and batch cook so we always have things in the freezer for busy days. The reliance on “ low fat “ foods from various slimming clubs still goes on . I’ve managed to get my husband off artificial sweeteners in his drinks and he’s reducing the sugar. We rarely eat out these days and when we do I’m like you and think that I could have made better myself !
Thanks for your informative reply. Yes I learned so much from my domestic science teacher that has been useful my whole life. I agree these things should still be taught in school. I don’t remember getting any snacks as a child except on a Friday when I got a tube of fruit gums from my gran. Good luck with your weight loss journey and thank you for sharing
Thanks Toni for a very interesting post,I try to eat healthy work in progress fair to say,I try to eat a good amount of fruit and vegetables not the variety thar you aim to eat but I’m getting there,if followed many diets over the years low fat etc and became increasingly concerned about some of the recommendations ,in particular artificial sweetner,fizzy diet drinks to name a few ,now I just try to buy healthy staples ,iv a long way to go but trying to make my diet as healthy as possible,as you are you really realise the importance of this more so ,I’m mid 50 s and usual aches and pains that come but I want to try like you and improve my health
That is so true. You think that you are invincible when you are younger. Thanks for sharing
Late comment but take a look at Zoe Harcombe book ‘The Harcombe Diet 3 Step Plan’. It has become my ‘bible’.
Thanks. I will have a look